* Some initial progress towards #4490
This PR just moves `Theme` and the "follow system theme" settings to
egui and adds `RawInput.system_theme`.
A follow-up PR can then introduce the two separate `dark_mode_style` and
`light_mode_style` fields on `Options`.
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### Breaking changes
The options `follow_system_theme` and `default_theme` has been moved
from `eframe` into `egui::Options`, settable with `ctx.options_mut`
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Co-authored-by: Emil Ernerfeldt <emil.ernerfeldt@gmail.com>